Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Abused at School?

Bullies and school: These two words fit together although bullies exist everywhere, but we usually connect it always to schools where it is the most critical time in our lives. Of course most of the bullies do have some sort of psychological issues that are caused by family problems and/or lack of attention at home.

Being bullied at this age "the school age" is very critical and goes harsh on the boy/girl; but what if the boy/girl showed the homosexual attitudes conscienceless and the bullies started making fun of them and abusing them just because they are different?

They are just bully kids they do not know what is right and what is wrong, they do not know what to think, how to think. They only act as their parents want them to act, they have no independent personality, they are just six or seven or eight or even ten years old.

What do you expect from the young abused homosexuals? To be come out to the community later on after what they have seen in their childhood? What do you expect? To adore the straight community and feel free to share with it their secrets?

Besides all that, all the emotional and psychological pressure that is put on the shoulders of those innocent small boys/girls from their childhood. It can even go to the physical abuse that is even softer and less damageable than the emotional and psychological stress, but it does hurt as well.

Besides all that, those abused boys/girls do their best to hide what is happening at school from their parents, from their brothers and sisters. They always live in fear that one day their family is going to know what has been going on at school. So they keep holding it together so they wouldn't break down in front of their family, they just feel ashamed of it already.

It used to happen at my time, and used to happen before my time, and is still happening till today. Why doesn't it stop? Because parents are still unable to accept anyone or anything that is different, and they still believe that they are "normal" and homosexuals are "abnormal", they are "right" and homosexuals are "wrong".

Such a shame, to still have such mentalities in the twenty first century at a touristic open country. The country that is considered "advanced" than the rest of the Arab countries. In this "advanced" country they still fight over a "parking space" and kill each other for it.

What can be said more! We reach a phase where depression and desperation get hold of us... But we should fight back and never surrender...

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